People sometimes make silly acts, hurting the most favourite and close. It is difficult to endure this pain, and you have to decide for yourself whether it is worth forgiving the person or not.
Instruction
1. If your darling hurt you, you should not keep it in yourself. Collect all the forces in a fist and try to talk to it. Explain, than you are dissatisfied what its act brought you similar negative emotions. Tell that you love the offender, but you do not want similar to repeat. You have to inform him, your corns are trodden how strongly on. Most likely, your soulmate realizes the mistake, will have sense of shame, will apologize you and will make everything in order that similar situations did not occur in your relations any more.
2. After frank recognition and sincere repentance of your darling and the loved one, you are faced by the choice: to forgive or not to forgive. Here everything depends only on what was made by the person and whether you are ready to accept him after a similar act. If you value your relations, most likely, you make the decision to restore in them peace and harmony.
3. If you after all decide to forgive the offender, try nevermore to remind him of the incident, otherwise you and constantly will quarrel and cause to each other pain. After you reconcile, carry out collaboration over mistakes. What between you occurred, only one person cannot be guilty of it. Most likely, in the event there is a share and your fault.
4. Improve the relations to each other. Begin to respect the soulmate and to care for her. Learn to spend time together not only in a house situation, but also in other places. Have more often a good time and have a rest in the company of the darling and your mutual friends. Rejoice to any pleasant trifles and go on life with a smile. If you do not pay attention to problems and difficulties, and will overcome together them, it will temper your relations and will make you unseparable couple. When between you the harmony and happiness reigns, any of you will not dare to hurt the dear person.
5. If you are not ready to forgive darling who let and not consciously, but after all hurt you very much, and decide to leave him because of it, the most important, you do not harbor further malice against it. Release it and wish sincere good luck and wellbeing if not with you, then with someone another. If you constantly remember the offenses, your pain will destroy you from within therefore you will not be able to construct the new relations which will make you happy.