Sometimes, that to take away the man with whom the relations, very difficult ended. But nevertheless there are options which will help to make it as soon as possible. You can go in two ways: to quietly explain that the love passed, or to resort to non-standard methods.
Instruction
1. Try to explain politely and quietly to the man that you to him have no feelings any more. Do not give in on its provocations and threats. He can say that he will commit suicide or will catch for you at an entrance. Don't worry: men only tell it, units are solved on extreme steps. Of course, it is better to hold such conversation by phone that it had less chances to move to pity you.
2. The result did not follow - stop communicating with it absolutely. Do not take the call when he calls, do not open for him a door if it comes on a visit. If he called from unfamiliar number, report that you cannot communicate at present. Think up any reason: you wash the floor, paint nails, sit in beauty shop or you sit down charging on phone.
3. Replace the lock or even the place of residence if it has keys from your apartment. Try not to appear near the house alone that it could not stop you for a conversation.
4. If these methods did not help, begin to act unconventionally. Perhaps, from you some actor's talents will be required. If you are not afraid of aggression from its party, report that you constantly changed it. You can even think up with whom and where. The more will be details, the chance is higher that it will lag behind you forever.
5. File to militia a petition, it has to be accepted at you. Describe all actions which are made by your former. Of course, he will not receive any punishment, but in militia for a conversation it will be caused. Perhaps, it will damp its ardor.
6. Try to leave the city for some time. For example, for a month or more. During this time feelings can cool down, and the young man forever to abandon you. Unfortunately, such option is available to not everyone.
7. Address one of the friends and ask that he played your new lover. Only it is better to select friends who will be able to stand for themselves if suddenly something goes not so.
8. Begin it to pursue actively. Each 30 minutes you call to it by telephone, ask something very simple or you tell nonsenses. Suggest to meet, for example, for shopping (it is necessary to choose such pastime which to it is hated). But only at meetings behave friendly, without any hint on feelings.
9. At a meeting you look untidy: wrinkled clothes, the dirty not brushed hair, ripped tights, the peeled varnish on nails. Behave uncivilizedly or it is even inadequate. Champ behind food, be picked a nose, roll up hysterics to it and people, the being row, laugh or cry without the reason. Very few people from men are capable to take out such behavior. If you choose this option, then take away being very quickly.