Unfortunately, life with the second half means not only pleasures, but also problems. Also it is not about the general difficulties, and fight of one spouse against the second. To protect itself from dangerous situations, it is necessary to know an operations procedure in case of domestic violence.
Instruction
1. It is not accepted to say about domestic violence: women and children who most often become its victims prefer to be silent for fear or involuntary compassion to the torturer. Become tyrants not suddenly. As a rule, the man, inclined to impulsive behavior, beautifully looks after, shows ardent feelings at the initial stage of the relations. Then such husband finds jealousy, irritability, dares to raise the voice, to clap doors, to beat ware. After that there comes the period when the spouse lets loose hands in the relation and wives, and children. Usual follows scandal rough reconciliation, but it only calm before the following storm. It is almost impossible to correct the tyrant, it is better to find forces to get rid of him.
2. The law costs on your party, but only you can help yourself. If in your family the scandals with manhandling became a commonplace, do not bring a situation to a critical limit. If there is no opportunity to immediately replace the residence, it is always necessary to have near at hand documents, some sum of money and spare flat keys (and cars if is available) that it was at any time possible to leave the house. Find the place (for example, with parents) in which you will be able temporarily to take refuge from the house tyrant. Do not assume that quarrels took place in the presence of children.
3. The woman's time, suffering from violence in family, hesitate to leave the spouse tyrant because of material dependence on it. In this situation it is important to understand that freedom will give you the chance to find work and to get up, find independence and respect for itself. Ask the help for the family or friends at whom you will be able to live some time before you manage to earn on rent of certain housing or you will exchange the apartment. Let it will be at first difficult, but without this step you will not be able to protect yourself from domestic violence.