Hard words or the serious conflict can easily pass into a fight. It is necessary to avoid such succession of events in all ways. It will be the most mature and crucial decision.
Instruction
1. Try to behave, do not give in to emotions. If you feel anger, fear or panic, try to stop a conversation. It is the best way to calm down and not to do mistakes. Heightened senses, as a rule, dull clarity of mind and do not allow to think rationally. It can lead to rash acts. Such way to avoid a fight is especially relevant if the conversation takes place, for example, in the unfamiliar place or in night-time. Besides, availability of alcohol in blood can complicate a situation to a limit. Try to discharge a difficult situation at once as soon as it arises.
2. Your interlocutor can be morally ready to a fight. Perhaps, he does not see acceptable results in communication with you and considers that only a fight can solve its problem. If it occurs, try to hook on it a conversation. Literally tell it that you do not want to fight and suggest to discuss a problem quietly. Do not accuse the interlocutor at all. You do not say to him that it brought a situation to a fight. Such charges will only anger him, and it will be difficult to avoid a fight. Try to calm the opponent, tell that you understand his claims and indignation.
3. Most likely, you should listen to a large number of insults in the address. If you want to avoid a fight, ignore them. You can hear from the person of charge of cowardice and weakness, impartial statements to your friends and relatives. Such statements are made with the purpose to enrage you. If it is not necessary to perceive these words seriously, then do not remember about pride. Present that you talk to sincerely sick person who does not understand what he speaks about.
4. Kind of the conversation did not proceed, you always monitor movements of your interlocutor, especially behind his hands. Be ready to protect themselves in case of need. For calm of a situation you hold the hands quietly. For example, you hold palms together and lower hands down, do not swing and do not gesticulate them.
5. If you understand that the constructive conversation is impossible, just leave. If you do it before the fight, do not think that you show cowardice. Remember that to remain safe and sound and it is always better not to cripple the opponent, than to get involved in a senseless fight with not clear results. Do not turn to the person a back. If he is ready extremely aggressively, you can get hit behind. You keep an eye on him, you will not depart on safe distance yet. Do not turn around after you leave. It can be apprehended as attempt to continue a conversation.