Family life is not so simple and cloudless as it is represented to the lovers who is in a rose and candy stage. Having lived together year or two, people sometimes leave. At the same time the parties often do not understand what became the reason, and, of course, accuse each other. And it is not so difficult to avoid sad end.
Instruction
1. Have patience. If you resolved to connect the destiny with the girl, then all joint life should be remembered: it that person, the love for whom needs to be kept in heart, having passed through quarrels, offenses, mutual reproaches and misunderstandings. Only this way years later it is possible to understand that feelings did not leave anywhere, they just became quiet, warm, house. But, unfortunately, many couples do not stand the test of time. And the cause is lack of such quality as patience. Often similar trait of character is absent at men. When claims to the wife collect, do not make scandal. And suggest it to talk, to peacefully discuss your common problems and to try to reach compromise in all questions.
2. If life is not got on with the wife, do not seek a consolation elsewhere. Many men create illusion of happiness, being broken off between family and the mistress. But such state of affairs does not bring joy to those who seriously treats family problems. On the contrary, sooner or later there is a need to leave one of women. And often happens that the soulmate does not want to be thrown. Guarantees that the full harmony will reign in new marriage no. Really, in it the period of grinding in will also begin and it is possible that mutual understanding will disappear. So, it is not necessary to hurry to change the wife, it is necessary to correct own view of the relations.
3. Find approach to the soulmate. Understand that sometimes irritability and discontent of the spouse are caused by elementary fatigue. Household chores are not romantic meetings. The woman creates a cosiness in the house, cares for you that is considerable work. And, of course, if you show desire to help her with something, then will show thereby the love. Perhaps, you should overcome yourself, to overcome own laziness, but, believe, family happiness is worth it.
4. Make concessions. When the quarrel arose from some trifle, a time important only for the woman, show nobility. Remember that you the representative of a strong half of mankind, and concede. The sad result in the form of a divorce, has to have the right for existence only as a last resort: if you finally and irrevocably came to a conclusion that the wife - already unloved stranger to you the person.